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Cultural Lesbiana at its best
“Emmie” is the first lesbian love song of the pop age.
Emmie by Laura Nyro – released 3/ 3/68 on the album – Eli And the Thirteenth Confession. In June 1968, Pete Johnson claimed the song to be “…one woman romancing another woman.” On Apirl 25, 1997, Alanna Nash reported “Emmie” to be ”Pop’s, first lesbian love song.”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6lqSYUBY-dc -sylvette323
Props to the Ronnie Dyson cover of “Emmie.” A noteworthy example of the cultural evolution of “Pop’s first lesbian love song.”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-PeGvH-Pm-Q&feature=response_watch
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There are at least three examples of an open expression of same-sex attraction in popular song, prior to the 1968 release of “Emmie.” ”Wenn die beste Freundin” (When my best Friend) by Marlene Dietrich and Margot Lion “…became the theme song of lesbians in late 1920’s Berlin.” My source is Anna May Wong: from laundryman’s daughter To Hollywood legend , by Graham Russell and Gao Hodges, p.86. ¹
http://www.last.fm/music/Marlene+Dietrich/_/Wenn+die+beste+Freundin
A cover song, in English, by Ute Lemper was sampled in the movie Kissing Jessica Stein. ”When The Special Girlfriend.”
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My vitae includes a Master’s degree in Human Sexuality. The Germans founded the science of Sexology and called it Sexualwissenschaft. It defines both a scientific and cultural approach to sexual behavior.
“Emmie” is a song about love, romance and sex. It was released on March 3, 1968. At that time, it described a “love that dare not speak its name.” “Emmie” is an example of Cultural Lesbiana at its best.
It is precisely, the reason why I published this blog. Such an awesome event in LGBT history needs to be noted and celebrated.
Major props to Ireneextreme. Her youtube version of the original song Wienn die beste Fruendin was ornamented by a mesmerizing photo array featuring Marlene Deitrich et al. (Her youtube cover is now defunct)
Kudos to juneseventeen for her youtube video cover, ”Emmie.” She described her vj cover as “Just a very sweet and innocent video to fit this song about first love.” (Her youtube cover is now defunct)
Both women, Marlene Dietrich and Laura Nyro, were bisexual, examples of awesome talent, and the power of the bisexual female having both genders in her thrall.
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¹ “B. D. Woman’s Blues” by Lucille Bogan was released in 1935. (See song #63 on the g2g love song list). N.B. “Prove It on Me Blues” by Ma Rainey released 1928. (See song #62 on the g2g love song list). Thanks to Kathy Belge http://kathybelge.com/
Confessions of a dyke chaser
Thought it safest to begin on a very tentative note with this ditty.
A Postcard to Nina by Jens Lekman
http://search.playlist.com/tracks/jens%20lekman%20a%20postcard%20to%20nina
A confession of over 25 years of social intimacy with lesbian & lesbian identified bisexual women.
DYKE CHASER: Definition – a male who dates lesbians. A male who has as his primary social and/or sexual network, lesbians or lesbian identified bisexual women. aka lesbian groupie
Advice given to me by my second roommate, Ace.
Rule 1. Sexual intimacy, if at all, can only be an incidental part of the relationship.
Rule 2. As her male consort, you must always defer to her preference to be with another woman or other women.
Rule 3. If there is any chemistry, whenever possible, cruise the couple.
Rule 4. Relish and savor a crush. The unique aspect of a crush is that it is very personal. It takes little or no reinforcement from the other party to sustain it.
Rule 5. Never underestimate any showing of spontaneous affection, particularly, a kiss .
Rule 6. If the chemistry signals a mutual attraction, lower if not altogether remove your expectations. Any deliberate quest should be modest, e.g., a mere touch or kiss, and in no way initiated by you. Never forget, the most intense may come from the least occasioned.
Rule 7. It starts with the eyes always with the eyes.
Rule 8. Wherever possible take space circuitously, avoid linear and direct moves.
Rule 9. Always check back in. You can never be too aware of her feelings and/or interests.
Rule 10. Be civil and gracious to every woman you meet, even if she is Godzilla. Remember, Godzilla may have a friend. Others may be espying how you treat Godzilla as an indication of how approachable you are.
She Loves Her by Too Short
Israeli Women – Images of the IDF
An open request:
Putting aside the politics of the Middle East, I am asking every blogger to view the IDF – Girls youtube vid. I have never seen such positive images of women. It was especially gratifying to see the affectionately woman to woman pictures.
As uncomfortable as it may be, to admit it, Israeli women seem to be flourishing, while Arab women (outside of Israel) seem to be stifled.
Are there any comparable vids out there showing American, Arab, and/or any other female military or otherwise personnel so impressively and so unselfconsciously? The emphasis is on woman to woman, preferably, open expressions of same-sex affection!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pxb1ftK5ye8&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KMe1HfPNq7Y
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kVz6d24Q52c
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szHUOxMaDyc&feature=related
It should not come as a surprise that my champion is the writer/journalist, Amira Hass.
Désiree by Laura Nyro – a Sapphic Reverie of Maria Desiderio
Upon request, I listened to “Wedding Bell Blues.” Nothing in the song refutes Laura’s bisexuality. It’s not until four years later, in “American Dove” that she sings of the fulfillment of the love longed for, in “Wedding Bell Blues.” In “American Dove” an original song honoring her fianće, she refrains, several times, “it’s been a long time comin, I mean love.” They marry in late 1971.
What is her live performance of “American Dove” on May 30, 1971, and her recording of “Désiree” in July 1971, all about? Singing with such a depth of passion toward both a man and a woman in less than 60 days, attests to her bisexuality, and not to her being a lesbian.
Nor is this the first time! On March 3, 1968, Laura released Eli and the Thirteenth Confession. In addition to “Eli’s Comin,” in two other songs, she uses candid sexual imagery to describe her men. “Love my lovething. Super ride inside my lovething” (The Confession) and “I take my coffee in the mornin’ and all your love, a spoonful or so helps us grow”(December’s Boudoir). Another two songs, to her woman, are just as candidly sexual. “oo who stole Mama’s heart and cuddled in her garden? darlin Emmie, oo la la la, oo la la la…” (Emmie), and “I keep rememberin Indoors that I use to walk thru…I could walk thru them doors onto a pleasure ground, it was sweet and funny a pleasure ground.” (Timer).
Ari Fox Lauren, a music theorist, made a study of Laura’s work. A major premise of her thesis is that Laura was heavily influenced by the music of Tin Pan Alley & the other composers of the American Songbook.
Cole Porter is a composer of the American Songbook. On May 7, 1953, Porter opened Can-Can on Broadway. The song “C’est Magnifique” was all the rage. Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Della Fitzgerald, et al covered it. Laura’s father played trumpet at the summer resorts of the “Borscht Belt.” She would have been immersed in the song. The lyrics are: “When love comes in and takes you for a spin, oo la la la C’est Magnifique. When every night your love one holds you tight, oo la la la C’est Magnifique.”
As with “C’est Magnifique,” ”Emmie” is about love, romance, and sex. However, in 1968, Emmie was “a love that dare not speak its name.” “Emmie’ was Pop’s first lesbian love song,” A comment posted by Alanna Nash, April 25, 1997, seventeen days after Laura passed away. See LGBT wikia article link Re: “Emmie (Laura Nyro song)”
http://lgbt.wikia.com/wiki/Emmie_%28Laura_Nyro_song%29
“So let the wind blow Timer…/ I like her song and if the song goes minor – I won’t mind”
“And if you love me true – I’ll spend my life with you – you and Timer…carved in a heart on a berry tree.” – Laura n’ Maria ‘67
The album Gonna Take a Miracle was released on November 17, 1971. Despite, the fact that the album was to be only covers, wholly unoriginal material, “…Nyro remained fully in charge.” Michele Kort, Soul Picnic p.133. It was variously billed as “a reminiscence of teenage heartthrob songs from Laura’s youth.” The major exception was Laura’s personal attribution of Désiree, along with her genderizing/reinvention of “Spanish Harlem.”
The basis for “Désiree” was The Charts’ versions which were done as the 1957 original “Deserie” and the 1967 nostalgia remake “Desiree.” Deserie/Desiree are classic doo-wop and both spellings are pronouncd the same. [Dĕz -ä-rē (like key)] Laura was a walking compendium of doo-wop. She would have been aware of both versions, spellings, and pronunciations. Both versions are available on youtube:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q8L4m3-jbsU- Deserie – hwaj5300
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=obEO6qXxo5U- Desiree – mrsradish.
Laura’s own treatment of the song is earthy & raw, a sultry love ballad. The song is an undisguised statement of love, an open expression of same-sex attraction, a Sapphic Paean.
A curious coincidence is the 1954 movie in which Jean Simmons starred with Marlon Brando entitled Désirée. This popular film was based upon the historical novel by Annemarie Selinko about Désirée Clary, the mistress of Napoleon. Eventually, Clary was crowned Queen Desideria of Sweden. Laura would have been aware of this Hollywood spectacle.
Argue all you want, you can’t get around Désiree. In July 1971, she sang a song that she, uniquely, titled Désiree and pronounced [Dĕz-ä-rā (like day)]. She adapted her cover from classic doo-wop to a sultry love ballad. Her beloved’s name was Désiree and Maria’s last name was Desiderio. Both names mean desire. The name transposition was not mere coincidence, but is evidence of a deliberate subterfuge. Laura repeated the name Désiree 14 times in the 1:48 minute/seconds. Her treatment was a personal attribution. Kort mentions in Soul Picnic, that “Désiree” was stripped down to voice, piano and vibes with “Nyro smoothly harmonizing with herself.” p.133. Laura insured that this song would be just so. It was to mark their June/July rendezvous to celebrate Maria’s 17th birthday of June 10, 1971.
Current links to Désiree.
http://music.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=music.artistalbums&artistid=1951040&albumid=8098867
http://free.napster.com/player/?play_id=10418612&type=track
http://www.imeem.com/atheoma/music/UENdV_qs/laura_nyro_labelle_desiree/
Laura revealed their limerence with the release of Désiree. She recorded, albeit on the down low, their high romance. Is it such a stretch to date the origin of that “flame” back to 1967? After all, Laura marked that 1967 bonding with her songs “Timer” and “Emmie” and the silhouetted back cover of vinyl Eli and the Thirteenth Confession.
N.B. The image below is available on GOOGLE in all but the safe mode.
http://lgbt.wikia.com/wiki/Image:ELI_Silhouetted_back_cover.jpg
There is the sentiment expressed by Debra J. Wolstein, on June 4, 2009, on facebook.com, concerning Lauria. “Laura & Maria had to have at least tested the waters in the early 70’s for that song to have manifested in ‘71 as such a personal tribute of love and desire.” *
Curiously, no one seems to know exactly when, where or how Laura first met Maria!
Is it so hard to accept that a woman, so passionately loved by so many men and women, would herself have loved, passionately, both men and women?
* http://www.facebook.com/inbox/readmessage.php?t=1121733134580
But God Forbid A Woman
This brainwashing extends tragically to women, as well. I recently heard a woman, a so-called Catholic “spokesperson,” defending the notion that women are, as much as men, the pillars of the church. “After all, it is the women who are the ones who place the flowers around the altar”?
