Désiree by Laura Nyro – a Sapphic Reverie of Maria Desiderio
Upon request, I listened to “Wedding Bell Blues.” Nothing in the song refutes Laura’s bisexuality. It’s not until four years later, in “American Dove” that she sings of the fulfillment of the love longed for, in “Wedding Bell Blues.” In “American Dove” an original song honoring her fianće, she refrains, several times, “it’s been a long time comin, I mean love.” They marry in late 1971.
What is her live performance of “American Dove” on May 30, 1971, and her recording of “Désiree” in July 1971, all about? Singing with such a depth of passion toward both a man and a woman in less than 60 days, attests to her bisexuality, and not to her being a lesbian.
Nor is this the first time! On March 3, 1968, Laura released Eli and the Thirteenth Confession. In addition to “Eli’s Comin,” in two other songs, she uses candid sexual imagery to describe her men. “Love my lovething. Super ride inside my lovething” (The Confession) and “I take my coffee in the mornin’ and all your love, a spoonful or so helps us grow”(December’s Boudoir). Another two songs, to her woman, are just as candidly sexual. “oo…who stole Mama’s heart and cuddled in her garden? darlin Emmie,…la la la, oo la la la…” (Emmie), and “I keep rememberin Indoors that I use to walk thru…I could walk thru them doors onto a pleasure ground, it was sweet and funny a pleasure ground.” (Timer).
Ari Fox Lauren, a music theorist, made a study of Laura’s work. A major premise of her thesis is that Laura was heavily influenced by the music of Tin Pan Alley & the other composers of the American Songbook.
Cole Porter is a composer of the American Songbook. On May 7, 1953, Porter opened Can-Can on Broadway. The song “C’est Magnifique” was all the rage. Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Della Fitzgerald, et al covered it. Laura’s father played trumpet at the summer resorts of the “Borscht Belt.” She would have been immersed in the song. The lyrics are: “When love comes in and takes you for a spin, oo la la la C’est Magnifique. When every night your love one holds you tight, oo la la la C’est Magnifique.”
As with “C’est Magnifique,” ”Emmie” is about love, romance, and sex. However, in 1968, Emmie was “a love that dare not speak its name.” “Emmie’ was Pop’s first lesbian love song,” A comment posted by Alanna Nash, April 25, 1997, seventeen days after Laura passed away. See LGBT wikia article link Re: “Emmie (Laura Nyro song)”
http://lgbt.wikia.com/wiki/Emmie_%28Laura_Nyro_song%29
“So let the wind blow Timer…/ I like her song and if the song goes minor – I won’t mind”
“And if you love me true – I’ll spend my life with you – you and Timer…carved in a heart on a berry tree.” – Laura n’ Maria ‘67
The album Gonna Take a Miracle was released on November 17, 1971. Despite, the fact that the album was to be only covers, wholly unoriginal material, “…Nyro remained fully in charge.” Michele Kort, Soul Picnic p.133. It was variously billed as “a reminiscence of teenage heartthrob songs from Laura’s youth.” The major exception was Laura’s personal attribution of Désiree, along with her genderizing/reinvention of “Spanish Harlem.”
The basis for “Désiree” was The Charts’ versions which were done as the 1957 original “Deserie” and the 1967 nostalgia remake “Desiree.” Deserie/Desiree are classic doo-wop and both spellings are pronouncd the same. [Dĕz -ä-rē (like key)] Laura was a walking compendium of doo-wop. She would have been aware of both versions, spellings, and pronunciations. Both versions are available on youtube:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q8L4m3-jbsU- Deserie – hwaj5300
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=obEO6qXxo5U- Desiree – mrsradish.
Laura’s own treatment of the song is earthy & raw, a sultry love ballad. The song is an undisguised statement of love, an open expression of same-sex attraction, a Sapphic Paean.
A curious coincidence is the 1954 movie in which Jean Simmons starred with Marlon Brando entitled Désirée. This popular film was based upon the historical novel by Annemarie Selinko about Désirée Clary, the mistress of Napoleon. Eventually, Clary was crowned Queen Desideria of Sweden. Laura would have been aware of this Hollywood spectacle.
Argue all you want, you can’t get around Désiree. In July 1971, she sang a song that she, uniquely, titled Désiree and pronounced [Dĕz-ä-rā (like day)]. She adapted her cover from classic doo-wop to a sultry love ballad. Her beloved’s name was Désiree and Maria’s last name was Desiderio. Both names mean desire. The name transposition was not mere coincidence, but is evidence of a deliberate subterfuge. Laura repeated the name Désiree 14 times in the 1:48 minute/seconds. Her treatment was a personal attribution. Kort mentions in Soul Picnic, that “Désiree” was stripped down to voice, piano and vibes with “Nyro smoothly harmonizing with herself.” p.133. Laura insured that this song would be just so. It was to mark their June/July rendezvous to celebrate Maria’s 17th birthday of June 10, 1971.
Current links to Désiree.
http://music.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=music.artistalbums&artistid=1951040&albumid=8098867
http://free.napster.com/player/?play_id=10418612&type=track
http://www.imeem.com/atheoma/music/UENdV_qs/laura_nyro_labelle_desiree/
Laura revealed their limerence with the release of Désiree. She recorded, albeit on the down low, their high romance. Is it such a stretch to date the origin of that “flame” back to 1967? After all, Laura marked that 1967 bonding with her songs “Timer” and “Emmie” and the silhouetted back cover of vinyl Eli and the Thirteenth Confession.
N.B. The image below is available on GOOGLE in all but the safe mode.
http://lgbt.wikia.com/wiki/Image:ELI_Silhouetted_back_cover.jpg
There is the sentiment expressed by Debra J. Wolstein, on June 4, 2009, on facebook.com, concerning Lauria. “Laura & Maria had to have at least tested the waters in the early 70’s for that song to have manifested in ‘71 as such a personal tribute of love and desire.” *
Curiously, no one seems to know exactly when, where or how Laura first met Maria!
Is it so hard to accept that a woman, so passionately loved by so many men and women, would herself have loved, passionately, both men and women?
* http://www.facebook.com/inbox/readmessage.php?t=1121733134580
rabdrake said,
June 5, 2009 at 9:31 pm
Facebook comment by Debra J. Wolstein
Hello Ralph,
Sorry this response is so delayed – I’ve been slammed with rehearsals for a new theatre group’s adaptation of “Songs for a New World”… crazy bass lines, keeping me very busy indeed!
I believe it was probably 1973 when I started doing Désiree with a trio of the remaining members of my all-girl band The Dairy Queens! The band was very over-the-top genderbending, but the trio was jazzy and laid back, with me on keyboard getting back to the music I loved best – Laura – and a smattering of similarly torch-like tunes that suited my Laura-like piano playing style. That song never left my repertoire, no matter who I played with or where… joke ‘em if they can’t take a … well, you know…
I’d have to agree with the sentiments you shared in your Aug. ‘08 review in Songs365… Laura & Maria had to have at least tested the waters in the early 70’s for that song to have manifested in ‘71 as such a personal tribute of love and desire… a desire I agree was probably unrequited until later because of Maria’s tender age… but there is no way I’m buying that they were merely friends, or as another reviewer who questioned your angle suggested, that they merely found they could “live together comfortably as Laura recovered from the loss of her man…”. Not just because I have too much invested emotionally in her to believe that, but because of the unmistakably erotic/romantic quality of that song (again, I agree that she re-wrote it as a subtle reference to Maria “Desiderio”) and other songs to follow, and because I personally know that Maria wielded much more influence on Laura during her life and on her legacy afterward to have been just a friend. When my friends Desmond Child & Rouge sang at Laura’s tribute concert, Maria apparently controlled every aspect of it, including the barring of videotaping, despite many impassioned appeals that she allow it to be immortalized on film or at least recorded… clearly the protective & grieving wife!!!
So there you have it – and as you said, because they were so guarded about their lives individually and together, not even close associates know the whole of it, so we more than likely never will either! The beauty of that, though, is the truth gets to be what I hope it was… and that’s good enough for me
Debra/Virgil
kristian said,
June 20, 2009 at 12:24 pm
thank you for posting this. I am a big Laura fan and bisexual (man.)
I knew that about Emmie, but had no idea that there was so much to Désiree. Yet I’ve always loved that song for so many reasons.
bar stone said,
August 20, 2009 at 7:37 pm
hello out there….wish you would get a life….you are so off on everthing Laura..if you had known her….well….she was a private person, with integritry who gave so much to this world…she didnt have time for gossip inuendo, and crap like this..
rabdrake said,
August 21, 2009 at 3:06 am
Hi bar stone: Why is it that you avoid talking about Désiree while posting a comment on the article? You along with Zoe Nicholson, Patti Di Lauria, and Michele Kort, refuse to come forward and talk about Désiree. Michele Kort had the temerity to argue that “Emmie” was not Pop’s first lesbian love song. Shame on her. See “An Open Letter to Michele Kort” – this blog.
You dare not talk about Désiree! Because if you do, you will have to concede that the song is a sultry love ballad to a woman. How would you avoid the remarkable coincidence that Désiree means desire and Maria’s last name Desiderio means desire? You would have to explain away, why Laura refrained “on the DL” Maria’s name, fourteen times in 1:48 min/sec? On May 30, 1971, Laura sang “American Dove” to honor her fiancé. In July 1971, she records Désiree, her Sapphic paean to Maria. What intervened? It was Maria’s 17th birthday on June 10, 1971. I speculate that they had a rendezvous.
If you knew her well, as you imply, then have the courage to come out and factually tackle my truths and speculations. All your insults do is make it clear that I am right! You lack the facts to refute me. All that is left to you is argumentum ad hominem. Shame on you, too.